How do I know if he loves me? When he wants me to be his gf he make time for me and send me morning and night messages and done everything to melt my heart. Now I am his gf and he don't treat me that way now.

Kindly try to put in your efforts and if you get tired imagine how much efforts he has taken to bring it to this level. Have you ever went on outing with him, kissed him, enjoyed his company, have sex with him, informed him what he should do to give you an orgazm while you are getting intimate with him or you ever tried to make him reach to climax……or is this love game STILL a puzzle for him?? make it more open ended & talkative/communicative

what efforts have YOU made….?? it seems you expect ONLY him to add the spices to the relationship, without you having the need to do anything.

Correct your expectations sweetheart!!!

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Stop behaving like cinderalla? you better come out of that relationship.

In any relationship if there will be one sided expectations, sooner or later that will break. and with you it seems that rather than being exciting for him, you have been excited for the relations ship hangover (yeah..yeah I am also in a relationship now) kind-offs, to get it validated or to show off to your friends, parents, society etc.

Think over it……whetehr you want to step in or step out. because if you want to remain you have to step in and make efforts to get it to next level….For everything you cannot blame him.

What are the types of values?

He made efforts to woo you, made you friend from a stranger, took to the next level by making you his gf….